20. My New Sex Rules | Not Me Having Abandonment Issues | Why Do We Dissociate During Sex?

WE MADE IT TO EPISODE 20 YALL! Wait until you see what’s planned for the season finale! 

Until then let’s catch up!

Let’s act like you’re my therapist. In this episode we’re gonna do a weekend update and talk about how I survived a 4 day weekend!

-clarify those weren’t my panties in my hand in the cab 

-after hours club 

-basketball game 

-manifesting things in my life 

Let’s talk about my new rules for sex:

• no sex when I’m drunk unless I decided I wanted to have sex before then 
• Take a pause before saying yes (shoutout to not your average sex podcast)
• No shame, no regrets 
• Hell yes (shoutout to relationsh*t with kami podcast)

Shooting my friendship shot 

Homie hopping

MMF 3some’s

Intimacy over sex

Filling my intimacy void with other things 

N*ggas in my DM’s

LINKS TO ARTICLES FEATURED IN EPISODE:

https://anchorlighttherapy.com/fear-of-abandonment-vs-engulfment/

https://www.thecouplescenter.org/dissociation-during-sex-signs-symptoms-treatment/

Sex toy shoutout: the magic wand by https://www.shopsedure.com and use the code LOVEATIYA for 15% off. Thank me later, two settings, automatic bomb deep orgasms. It’s amazing!

Plant medicine suggestions: https://www.heavenhighnyc.com they have everything you need and the highest quality of EVERYTHING (including vegan THC gummies) tell them loveatiya sent you for something special 

Jewelry shoutout: https://www.imanijewelry.com has the best handmade unique high quality jewelry and this is where I got those viral silvery third eye hoops from. Everything is one of a kind so get it while you can! Use the code LOVEATIYA for 10% off

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