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IADGAF
Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy.
This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.)
This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like outside of the male gaze (eeeeyuck) and literally practice not giving a f*ck.
It’s time for us to step out of the cage the world built for you and walk barefoot into your own wildness.
Episodes
103 episodes
82. Men Are Inherently Evil Or Weird So I’m Dating Myself
Hey beautiful soul!I feel like the title of this video says it ALL.In today’s video I talk about what I TRULY desire (consistency…from ONE person)What I will no longer tolerate (being around non curious mofo’s)
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PATREON BONUS: Spiritual Sobriety From Dating & Tea On Why I Changed My Business Name
Warning: this is dystopian af Sidenote: this is an extension to an episode I never posted lol but basically it felt like god was literally holding back all potential connections from me (for my growth or whatever 🙄) and I was taking...
Love Island USA Review Episode 4 | Ooooo She's Getting That Turtle Tongue Happy PRIDE!
Welcome back, beautiful humans! 🌴✨It's time for another Love Island USA Season 8 recap because Episode 4 brought even more flirting, drama, tension, and messy villa dynamics.In today's video, I'm sharing my reactions, opinions, pr...
Love Island USA Review Episode 3 | It's Giving They're About To Unravel
Welcome back, beautiful humans! 🌴✨It's time for another Love Island USA Season 8 recap because Episode 3 gave us exactly what we signed up for: flirting, tension, questionable decisions, unexpected connections, and enough villa drama to...
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Love Island USA Review Episode 2 | It's Giving The Challengers & MFM
Welcome back, beautiful humans! 🌴✨We're back for another Love Island USA recap/review because somehow after only two episodes, I'm already emotionally invested in strangers making questionable romantic decisions on national television.
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BONUS EPISODE: You Are So Much More Than Your Trauma
Hey beautiful souls!Welcome to a bonus episode where I’m basically catching you up on my journey of giving less f*cks. In today’s episode we talk all about: How we are so much more than our trauma ...
Love Island USA Review Episode 1 | It's Giving Nostalgic Love Island
Welcome, beautiful humans! 🌴✨Love Island USA is officially back and you already know I had thoughts.If you know me, you know I've been riding with this show since Season 1 (far less enthusiastically) but the nostalgic vibes of t...
Love Island UK Review Episodes 1, 2 & 3 | It's Giving Vecna
Welcome back, beautiful humans! 🌴✨Today we're diving into my thoughts, reactions, hot takes, and probably a few dramatic opinions about Love Island UK Episodes 1, 2, and 3!If you know me, you know this isn't my usual content but...
81. My Pervy “Play Uncle” & Why It’s Okay To Feel Your Anger
Welcome to yet another episode of THE IADGAF PODCAST!In todays episode we talk all about:The Lorax & how it’s kinda my favorite movie The epiphany I had about my caterpillar soup phase Being willingly b...
80. How To Date Again After Taking A Long A** Break (Part 1)
Hey beautiful butterfly!Welcome to yet another episode of IADGAFIn today’s episode we’re talking about dating as well as: What even is a wombCan men’s breast produce milk? Freeing the nipple
79. How To Become Less Accessible Without Giving A F*ck
Welcome to season 4 of THE IADGAF podcast (formally known as The Love Atiya Experience & The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast) I am sooooooo excited for this newly revamped and rebranded version of my podcast. We made it to year 4 baby! This is ...
78. IADGAF A PODCAST FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT TO GIVE LESS F*CKS
Hey! So my laptop started glitching while I was trying to fix the sound (peep my pristine intro with my NEW mic) anyways in honor of not giving a fuck i'm posting it as it because I refuse to let my glitching laptop stop me from releasing this ...
PATREON BONUS: So I Met Up With a Man IRL After a Year Of No Dating…
HEY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! This episode was WAAAAAY too juicy for the main feed so I decided to upload it onto Patreon instead. Wanna hear the rest of the episode? Become a Butterfly (Patron) TODAY!
PATREON BONUS: Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY
Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY“I was the loudest one clapping in the room, eventually I learned how to start clapping for myself”Question of the day: are we (humans) a little too sentient? or maybe...
77. Friendship Archetypes and Feeling More Pleasure With Friends (Part 2)
Friendship archetypes and feeling more pleasure with friends (Part 2)Where is part one?: Part one can be found on my Patreon! Listen for FREE by becoming a patron today!
76. Solo Date Ideas & After Care Tips For Sexting
TRIGGER WARNINGHey beautiful souls, this episode of The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast includes discussion and mention of sexual assault.These conversations may be activating or emotionally challenging for ...
75. Should We Stop Trying To Connect With Men?
Heyyyyy beautiful souls! So happy to have you here.This episode is all about:Me flying in fake first class on JetBlueMy failed attempts trying to connect with menHow New York tried to steal my soul<...
PATREON BONUS: How To Create Core Values For THIS Version Of You
TRIGGER WARNINGThis episode of The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast includes discussion and mention of sexual assault and domestic violence.These conversations may be activating or emotionall...
14. I Don't Have To Prove My Depression To You & Quitting Only Fans
WARNING: if you are struggling with suicidal ideation the end of this episode may help you or trigger you. The first part of the episode is all about how I am no longer trying to PROVE my depression to the people in my life and tools I’m usi...
74. We Are Not Normal Human Beings | Turning 31 and Giving Less Fucks
Hey beautiful souls!Welcome to yet another dope ass episode where I talk all about:Not being a normal human Faux healers & energy leeches Having friends I’m excited to listen to...
73. Confession: My Desires For Platonic Intimacy & A Companion?
Hey beautiful souls!In today's episode I'm talking all about:Platonic intimacy What if relationships aren’t all bad?Why I don’t need a roster (& taking the pressure off my roster search) ...
72. Misogyny in Queer Spaces & My Lesbian Updates
Hey beautiful souls!Todays episode is all about:Love island games Men being unintentionally queer How my ancestors have my back Lesbianism vs queerness My st...
71. PATREON: He Said He Couldn’t Cuddle… Platonic Intimacy & Finding My People
Hey beautiful souls!I’m so excited for this wonderful Patreon episode that’s all about platonic intimacy! I was going to post it exclusively for my Patreons but I decided to post this as a preview into the type of bonus conten...
PATREON BONUS: Everything You Want Is On The Other Side Of Fear
Hey beautiful souls!Today's episode is all about:Loving every version of myselfMeeting every version of myself and falling in love again and againHaving regrets everytime I go outside Pr...
70. Creating A Pleasure Plan | Finding Pleasure During Grief
Was everyone in my life using me? LOLHey beautiful souls! In today’s episode we talk all about:Asking for help & grief in your 30’sLetting go of all the people who aren’t truly aligned (and possibly never were)Gr...