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IADGAF
Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy.
This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.)
This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like outside of the male gaze (eeeeyuck) and literally practice not giving a f*ck.
It’s time for us to step out of the cage the world built for you and walk barefoot into your own wildness.
Episodes
94 episodes
80. How To Date Again After Taking A Long A** Break (Part 1)
Hey beautiful butterfly!Welcome to yet another episode of IADGAFIn today’s episode we’re talking about dating as well as: What even is a wombCan men’s breast produce milk? Freeing the nipple
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79. How To Become Less Accessible Without Giving A F*ck
Welcome to season 4 of THE IADGAF podcast (formally known as The Love Atiya Experience & The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast) I am sooooooo excited for this newly revamped and rebranded version of my podcast. We made it to year 4 baby! This is ...
78. IADGAF A PODCAST FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT TO GIVE LESS F*CKS
Hey! So my laptop started glitching while I was trying to fix the sound (peep my pristine intro with my NEW mic) anyways in honor of not giving a fuck i'm posting it as it because I refuse to let my glitching laptop stop me from releasing this ...
PATREON BONUS: So I Met Up With a Man IRL After a Year Of No Dating…
HEY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! This episode was WAAAAAY too juicy for the main feed so I decided to upload it onto Patreon instead. Wanna hear the rest of the episode? Become a Butterfly (Patron) TODAY!
PATREON BONUS: Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY
Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY“I was the loudest one clapping in the room, eventually I learned how to start clapping for myself”Question of the day: are we (humans) a little too sentient? or maybe...
77. Friendship Archetypes and Feeling More Pleasure With Friends (Part 2)
Friendship archetypes and feeling more pleasure with friends (Part 2)Where is part one?: Part one can be found on my Patreon! Listen for FREE by becoming a patron today!
76. Solo Date Ideas & After Care Tips For Sexting
TRIGGER WARNINGHey beautiful souls, this episode of The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast includes discussion and mention of sexual assault.These conversations may be activating or emotionally challenging for ...
75. Should We Stop Trying To Connect With Men?
Heyyyyy beautiful souls! So happy to have you here.This episode is all about:Me flying in fake first class on JetBlueMy failed attempts trying to connect with menHow New York tried to steal my soul<...
PATREON BONUS: How To Create Core Values For THIS Version Of You
TRIGGER WARNINGThis episode of The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast includes discussion and mention of sexual assault and domestic violence.These conversations may be activating or emotionall...
14. I Don't Have To Prove My Depression To You & Quitting Only Fans
WARNING: if you are struggling with suicidal ideation the end of this episode may help you or trigger you. The first part of the episode is all about how I am no longer trying to PROVE my depression to the people in my life and tools I’m usi...
74. We Are Not Normal Human Beings | Turning 31 and Giving Less Fucks
Hey beautiful souls!Welcome to yet another dope ass episode where I talk all about:Not being a normal human Faux healers & energy leeches Having friends I’m excited to listen to...
73. Confession: My Desires For Platonic Intimacy & A Companion?
Hey beautiful souls!In today's episode I'm talking all about:Platonic intimacy What if relationships aren’t all bad?Why I don’t need a roster (& taking the pressure off my roster search) ...
72. Misogyny in Queer Spaces & My Lesbian Updates
Hey beautiful souls!Todays episode is all about:Love island games Men being unintentionally queer How my ancestors have my back Lesbianism vs queerness My st...
71. PATREON: He Said He Couldn’t Cuddle… Platonic Intimacy & Finding My People
Hey beautiful souls!I’m so excited for this wonderful Patreon episode that’s all about platonic intimacy! I was going to post it exclusively for my Patreons but I decided to post this as a preview into the type of bonus conten...
PATREON BONUS: Everything You Want Is On The Other Side Of Fear
Hey beautiful souls!Today's episode is all about:Loving every version of myselfMeeting every version of myself and falling in love again and againHaving regrets everytime I go outside Pr...
70. Creating A Pleasure Plan | Finding Pleasure During Grief
Was everyone in my life using me? LOLHey beautiful souls! In today’s episode we talk all about:Asking for help & grief in your 30’sLetting go of all the people who aren’t truly aligned (and possibly never were)Gr...
69. Decolonizing Pleasure Pt 2 | Gender & Sexuality Pre-Colonization
Hey beautiful souls,HAPPY EPISODE 69!For Episode 69 I wanted to do something HUGE and this episode is probably THE most informative one yet.We’re talking about:Gender and sexuality before colonization<...
68. The Power Of The Indigenous People | Decolonizing Pleasure
Hey beautiful souls,In today’s episode I talk all about how the white man literally tried to wipe indigenous people off of the earth and dive deep into some research about the world of pleasure before our bodies were colonized...
BONUS EPISODE: I Made An Oppsie
If you were one of the 50 people with very fast hands who were able to catch my last accidental upload. Please go back and re-listen because I've officially uploaded the REAL and ACTUAL episode that was supposed to go out last week LMAO<...
67. Dual Stimulation, Energy Maintenance & Mind Blowing Orgasms
Hey beautiful souls!In today’s amazing episode we talk all about:The Ethereal Pleasure Camp (an adult summer camp)Dual StimulationMy latest experience with penetrating myself (hint: it was a success!) Exp...
66. How To Pleasure Yourself To Your Higher Self | My Penetration Experiment
How To Self Pleasure To Your Higher Self & My Penetration Experiment IT’S MY MF BIRTHDAAAAAAAAY!!!!!!!In today’s episode we talk about:Me & my amazing therapy sessionHow penetration has ...
The Root Cause To The Negative Voices In My Head
Get those mf OUTTA HERE!Who is it? Cause it's not you.We weren't born hating ourselves, unless that's the energy that was pumped into from the womb and even then, there's hope for you to free yourself but first we have to figure o...
65. The History & Hidden Truth Behind Porn (Are We Addicted Or Nah?)
Trigger Warning: Mentions Of S*xual AssualtHey beautiful babes and babettes! I’m so excited for this episode featuring one of my favorite topics! The history of s*x!This episode is all about:Trying not to “be” what people w...